The Four Principles Of Healthy Relationships
Relationships are the most important part of our lives. They are the source of our greatest
joys -- but our deepest sorrows. Much of our pain in life comes from difficult or broken
connections with other people. This book focuses on four principles that make all relationships
succeed integrity: love, humility, and forgiveness.
These four factors are essential to the most intimate and the most public relationships. Yet
we can't achieve them on our own. The authors explain how we can be empowered by God to
practice these four compelling keys to relational wholeness.
Each chapter includes discussion questions for small groups.
Jim Peterson has been on staff with The Navigators since 1958. He pioneered the Navigator
ministry in Brazil. He is also the best-selling author of Living Proof, The Insider, and Church
Without Walls.
Glenn McMahan is on staff with The Navigators in Londrina, Brazil. He is also a journalist
and has worked for the Frederick Times near Baltimore, Maryland.
Dr. David Russ lives in Charlotte, North Carolina. He is a certified psychologist with twenty
years of experience in counseling.
Contents:
- Humankind's Relentless Longing for Relational Wholeness
- The Divine Roots of Humanity's Relational Nature
- Expressions of God's Relational Heart
- The 4 Essentials of Relational Wholeness
- Integrity
- Love
- Humility
- Forgiveness
- Madelyn and Allan
- A Dynamic Partnership with God
- Close Company
Recommendation:The writers discuss four principles
necessary to any healthy relationship: integrity, love, humility, and
forgiveness. Whether an intimate marriage relationship or a casual
working relationship, these "ingredients" are the key to success. The
writers show these principles lived out in the Christian life as true
mandates from God. The first few chapters discuss our longing for whole
relationships, the divine roots of our relational nature, how God
expresses His relationship with us, and how we can reflect that in our
own lives. The rest of the book is devoted to discussing each principle
individually and to giving examples on the results of putting them into
practice, or the consequences of not putting them into practice.What is
different about this relationship book than the others out there? Well,
from my own reading experience, this particular book talks more about
relationships in general, not just marriage. It could make a great gift
for a pastor, business leader, or husband/father. I think the tone and
style is geared toward men, in my opinion. There's no "mushy" stuff or
romantic ideas -- just straightforward advice for maintaining
Christ-like characteristics in your daily interactions with others.There
are discussion questions included at the end of each chapter, so this
could be used in a small group or Bible study setting.