What Can I Say? When a friend?s in pain, what do you say? Do you stall
and sputter, like a foot just landed in your mouth?
Most of us grope
for the right words, feeling unequipped for the task. But we don't need
to respond that way. The words of a friend - your words - can inspire
hope and healing. Friendship Counseling provides strugglers with
meaningful, life-changing assistance. Modeled after Christ's
interaction with suffering people, Friendship Counseling will help you
offer others:
- Permission to express doubts, anger, and questions
- Hopeful "life words" that inspire ongoing healing
- Ways to build
deeper character and inner strength
- Inspiration to draw closer to God,
despite the pain
- Encouragement to change personally and relationally
"People in pain need a spiritual guide who knows them, someone who
knows how to come alongside and offer hope and direction," explains
Huggins. "They need a guide who relates to them the way Jesus does."
Using friendship counseling, that "someone" can be you. If you want to inspire
positive change, offer words that heal instead of hurt, Give people the gift of friendship counseling.
Contents
PART One
Jesus and human suffering
1 Trouble in the World
2 Trouble in the Heart
PART Two
Jesus and human change
3 Life-Changing Relationships
4 Life-Changing Words
PART Three
Jesus and human counseling
5. Life-Words for Shaping Counseling Relationships
6 Life-Words for Guiding Reflection
7 Life-Words for Cultivating Repentance
8 Life-Words for Promoting Reconciliation
9 Life-Words for Encouraging Responsibility
10 Life-Words for Our Own Hearts